Happy = Chang coming back to church. Missed having him around in church.  He’s someone whom I showered my TLC on and brought him to church. Then he left, now he’s back, the rest is history. I’m so proud of his courage and decision to come back. :)

Neutral = Cg may be shifting to Expo service.

Sad = Received a call from someone… His dad just beat him up quite bad. Seriously, what right does the father has to do that, now that the child is a grown-up, able to make his own decisions? To me that is plainly a physical abuse. What is the end-result he hopes to achieve? Disunity and fear in the household, hatred towards him?

“Spare the rod and spoil the child".

Sure I do support that statement, but firstly, as parents they gotta examine the purpose of them using the ‘rod’. Will it do more harm or good to the child? Eventually, is the message/lesson being brought across?

My heart is saddened. :(

Just a few days ago, my lecturer mentioned that hospitals are seeing more patients being admitted due to physical abuses at home. It’s ironic. Home should be the safest place to be in.

It’s not surprising that most abusers are the males (Sorry for the stereotype.). What’s wrong with them really? Are they trying to make others feel small to make them appear ‘bigger’, more powerful? It’s pathetic that they have no other means to portray that.

So, if your boyfriend or husband are abusive towards you, leave him. Till he wakes up his ideas, straighten out his thoughts then maybe you can consider going back. Otherwise, ladies, you don’t deserve that kind of treatment from anyone at all.

(Just to clarify, leaving your husband doesn’t mean divorcing him. It means going somewhere safer away from him until he decides to change. You gotta protect yourself.)

 

Alright so much for now.